Thursday, April 15, 2010


Blogosphere. That's a word that didn't exists until a few years ago. Here is how it is defined on the Wikipedia site. (And we all know if you read it there, it HAS to be right, right?)

The blogosphere is made up of all blogs and their interconnections. The term implies that blogs exist together as a connected community (or as a collection of connected communities) or as a social network in which everyday authors can publish their opinions.
I remember how my grandmother use to attend her weekly "club" meetings. Her club, or community of ladies, made quilts, chatted, formed friendships, helped each other, learned new and sharpened old homemaking skills, and...well I don't know everything they did. Her club was special to her, and even though I know her grandchildren were also special, we were never invited to attend "club" with her. That was her time to get dressed up, get out of the house, and get connected with women she knew as friends.

I wonder if any of those clubs even exist any more. Today we live in an age of social networking web sites, online chat rooms, instant messaging, and blogging communities. We call people friends whom we've never met. We chat without saying a word. We smile with colons and parentheses, and we display sadness the same way. Culture has shifted so that when a friend we don't really know has a less than positive status update on her web page (which is not really a page at all), we give virtual hugs and leave encouraging words in a comment box.

Today I'm not going to get into whether this change in how we function as community is good or bad. Though I will say that sometimes it makes me sad. My point is...that's how life is now. Like it or not, the blogosphere is "out there" and it is real. Sort of.

Not to be left behind--rocking on the porch while the rest of the world sits staring at computer screens trying to act like a community--I am part of that online group of worldwide bloggers.

Just like there were certain rules of etiquette that my grandmother followed when she went to her club meetings there are rules of etiquette among those who put their opinions out there on the web for the whole world to see. One of those rules is, share links and help promote another person's blog. Now don't ask me why we blog writers (most of us anyway) want the whole world to see our photos, know our likes and dislikes, and read our take on everything that happens in our lives, but we do. Somehow it is our way of trying to find like-minded people to build our virtual community.

When Edie over at Rich Gifts designed my new blog, I asked her to create a page called Points Of Interest or POI. These POI are places I like to visit, blogs I like to read or have found helpful. They are all part of a modern day virtual community. As I have time and discover new blogs I will add them so that you, my reader, can check them out for yourself. And if you like, you can read, leave comments, or whatever you want to do so that you will be part of the social group know as the blogosphere. So come back and check this page ever now and then for a new POI!

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Bonnie Gray said...

Hi Lavonda,

I think there rocking on the porch is still so important, but it definitely takes SO much effort. 'Cuz now, I have to email people in advance to just come over for supper!

I remember with my mom growing up, she could call up someone jsut a couple hrs before.. and I'd see her friend at our table in a snap.

(sigh) not so anymore..

I came by to say THANK you for keeping me company at Kelly's place, on my guest post on REST.

As you feel stirred, I want to invite you to take the "What If" Challenge today with me

It'd be fun to "jam" together on this challenge. ;)

Edie said...

Oh to have time to just sit on the front porch and enjoy God and the surroundings. A little company would be very nice too. :)

It's funny, yesterday when I picked up my grand-girl I took my camera with me to see if I could get some pictures of a couple of houses on the way that I liked. As I very slowly drove by one and snapped my picture I saw there was an elderly man sitting on the front porch. I'm sure I made him think he was being stalked. LOL!

Thanks for the link! Have a great weekend! [INSERT SMILEY FACE HERE]

Ida said...

of course, if you have a laptop and wireless internet, and who doesn't, then you can sit on your porch and rock while you are online blogging.

Love the new look,btw.

Karen said...

I agree that at times the "way things are" makes me yearn for the way some things used to be...but as you wrote, life is how it is now...and we can either embrace it and find good in the new ways...or refuse to try and possibly lose out on some wonderful new beginnings...

I have "met" some ladies in the blogosphere that I have grown to love as sisters-in-Christ...we share thoughts, laughter, and prayers...and the same Father...

Thanks for the link...I really like your blog makeover....

Kaleena Mann said...

I finally updated my blog! Yay! I included a few pictures of my little garden. :)